**This blog was originally posted on techsavvykids.co.uk on 17/08/13**
So,
another tragic story emerges of a teen committing suicide as a result
of online bullying, this time 17yr old Daniel Perry following on
recently from that of 14yr old Hannah Smith. Again a social networking
site is implicated - although it was noted that Skype also played a part
in the Perry case, Ask.fm was cited in both and is bearing much of the
blame for not monitoring its users diligently enough. While I
wholeheartedly agree that any networking site that does not monitor and
block users that part take in trolling or any form of bullying is
effectively condoning the act, I can't help but feel that you need to
apply blame to those sending the messages, not the site through which
they are sent.
Whether
computers, the internet and social networks exist or not, there will
always be those that wish to prey on the vulnerable and they will find a
way to do it. The internet has simply given the bullies a convenient
appearance of anonymity and extended their reach. Social networking
sites are connecting people from across the globe, and the chances are
that the site that you are using is not even based in the same country
as you.
When
children under 13 use networking sites, by law avatars and pseudonyms
must be used to protect the users privacy. This may in turn reinforce
their lack of connection with those they are interacting with, so that
by the time they are using social networking sites as teenagers they do
not see the user on the other computer as an actual person, but as a
just another fictional avatar.
What
we can do though is educate our children and students to be aware of
the dangers of interacting with others online as soon as they are old
enough to start going online independently – and what to do if they do
encounter bullying or offensive behaviour. Most sites should have a
facility to flag offensive messages or block users. We must also
remember that those posting the offensive messages are people too,
someone’s children, possibly someone’s students. Part of teaching how to
deal WITH the offensive behaviour should be teaching how TO behave when
online. As with the playground, what can start off as harmless teasing
can evolve into something more sinister. It is all of our
responsibilities to make sure our children are taught how this behaviour
affects others, as well as how it can affect them.
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